How To Attract Your Soulmate

In this blog post I will share and and give you a few tips on how to attract your beloved, true love, soulmate, divine partner to the One (there are so many different names to call this beautiful contract but it all relates to the same… your one and only).

1. Setting the intention and believing there is someone who is your significant other. Someone “out there” just like you, who is looking for you –and can change your whole life to bliss. Remember the “one” will always get along with you. Your soulmate will never argue or put you down. If you think someone is the “one” in your life, but he/she puts you down, contradicts with you, ghosts you on dates, cheats on you, etc. then I have to tell you that you are in denial.

This relationship is either a karmic flame or possibly even a narcissist who will never change no matter what they say.

This person will always make your life very unhappy and I need to urge you to honour and empower yourself to walk away, surrender it to a higher power and most of all forgive this person. This is the first big step in manifesting the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.

I said big step, because it is. Trust me, I know first hand as I was once married to an energy vampire.

I finally got the strength and courage to walk away from it all and let it go and because I believed that I deserve to be treated better, and to be loved, I found the love of my life.

2. Forgive the person who hurt and maybe betrayed you in the past

This is probably the most Challenging part of it all but the key in manifesting your beloved.  You may not realize it but resenting someone binds you just as tightly to that person as longing does. Both are attachments that keep you hooked in the past rather than focused clearly in the present moment. Before we can accept new love into our lives we have to release any hurt from the past.

Try this little exercise…

What you will need:

  • paper and pen
  • comfortable chair
  • 20 minutes or more of uninterrupted time (time may vary)

Write out a letter to the person/people who hurt you. Express everything you feel in great detail. Feel everything that you need to feel, ask your self if you could let this go? Just “could” you. If yes, then ask would you? In other words, if you could let it go, would you? If so, when? You might have to ask your self these questions a few times (this is the Sedona Method, and it will help you big time).

Alternatively, simply paying full attention to your feelings about it (without trying to push them away or hold them close). Just observe them as impartially as you can. Breathing mindfully as you do this can also be helpful. This non-judgemental awareness (non-judgemental of your painful and trapped feelings) can often lead to spontaneous releasing and healing.

Then burn the letter with the intentions that all of the energy is dissipated.

If more comes up at a later date, it doesn’t mean it didn’t work. It simply means that there are more layers coming up for release. Allow the feelings to pass through you using your breath and awareness.

3. Make room in your life for your beloved ~

Ok, here is where some deep spring cleaning comes in. But it’s more than just organizing and cleaning the house! It’s about clearing out the mind clutter and co-dependant relationships and energy vampires/narcissistic energy.

There are also people in your life who are naysayers and always have a way to bring you to a downward spiral. You may not have a choice to be in contact with them (this could be family and co-workers). It’s not to say that you have to break up important dealings/transactions, friendship/relationships, however it is important to not include them in your personal space within. In other words, don’t share your hopes and dreams with those types of people!

The first step is to identify the roles everyone in your life plays.

Write down each person’s name and take a deep breath. Then write down beside their name the first impression or thought you receive along with a brief description of how they make you feel in your life. Examples:

  • Aggressive/passive, always need to be right in the conversations.
  • Competitive, always shows off and puts the other person down in some way
  • Complains, always blaming the past for their hurtful actions.
  • Loves to argue with you, for no reason and teases all the time.
  • Talks about themselves constantly, uses the word “I” all the time and never asks you how you are doing.
  • Sees and hears what they want to hear from you, they never take “no” for an answer. Twists the truth and manipulates it.

Get the picture? It’s a very important step to be aware of the role they play in your life. The next step is to start practicing standing your own ground.

To learn more about energy vampires, I highly recommend reading Dodging Energy Vampires by Christiane Northrup. It is an eye opener!

Find your “Sacred Space”

To find your sacred space, you need to do a deep declutter of what no longer serves you. Everything you own has some sort of attachment to it. It can remind you of someone who gave it to you or a time when you were not happy.

If you are not using it, or you do not LOVE it then I highly suggest donating or selling it. It’s ok if you’re not sure. If you aren’t 100% not sure, then put everything in a box for few weeks and decide later. As my Aunt Pauline used to say to me: “if you have to storage it and won’t be using it, then let it go! She was right.

 

My Personal Story Of Letting Go…

I have another story to share. I had to let my Zumba business go this year and I had a hard time because there was a strong attachment that I had to my classes. It was 10 years of teaching (which helped me through all of my past hurts, DANCING is so HEALING), and at the time I was one of the few instructors in the city.

I got into Zumba to lose weight (I lost 55 lbs in the first year of teaching). I became popular and my classes were always packed. It came to the point where I needed to add additional classes (supply and demand). This meant that there was barely any time to schedule my psychic/tarot reading appointments and Reiki sessions (this was the time I really needed to clone myself:-).

I made the choice to do Zumba “full time” although I continued with my readings and Reiki as well.  I never took a break, even when I got sick and developed injuries (the life of a fitness instructor is definitely not as glamorous as it may look).

2014 my retina decided to partially detach from my eye. Obviously this was a message from my soul that I’m not taking any time for myself to “see” the repeatable pattern that I’ve created again in my life. I “painted myself into a corner.”

At the time of teaching classes, I attracted many energy vampires to my classes who were draining my light big time (I won’t get into it — the list is long. All I will say is that I used to go into deep depression on my way to classes). My soul wanted out!

It came to the point where I was paying the rent for the room the classes were in out of my own pocket. This led to my having hard feelings and sadness (because it once was the HIGHLIGHT of my life).

So I let all of my independent Zumba classes go in the summer 2017 (I kept one class because it was actually a paid gig). In February of this year (2018), I was let go and was humiliated by the management. I wrote a blog post and recorded a Youtube video about the situation: “How To Forgive And Let Go Of Betrayal”

A week later  I developed a muscular hip pain. I got it checked by a physiotherapist and it’s just tight muscles.

It’s created from an attachment that I’m holding on to. Related to my root chakra of status, community and roots.

Today it occurred to me that I’m holding on to this fantasy of Zumba mysteriously coming back and being the success it was (yes, I’m so grateful to losing the weight and all of the beautiful friendships that I made). But it’s over and I’d like to just remember the fun I had.

So I took apart a separate closet that was dedicated to all Zumba wear (there was a time I had more Zumba clothes than regular clothes) and donated it to Good Will.

I noticed the hip started to get a little better. Then I cancelled my fitness insurance — guess what?! The pain is 99% better. I still have my Zumba biz website, google and Facebook to tear down soon. This was a very strong unhealthy attachment that I had to let go and get my self out of the “painted corner.”

The point to my story is that I wasn’t listening to my soul telling me that I needed to move on and that the Universe had something better in store. So my hip started to act up to help me get the message!  I needed start by clearing space in my place, in my mind and in my schedule in order to find myself.  I’m back to doing my Psychic work full time and have time to paint again! And I’m back on track working slowly but surely to my goal of creating my own Oracle card deck. I feel ecstatic!

Further Reading

The New Moon And How To Manifest Love

How To Know If You’ve Met Your Soulmate

Goodbye Friday Zumba Class

How To Attract Your Eternal Soulmate

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The New Moon & How to Manifest Love

We have a new moon in the sign of Aries  Sunday April 15, 2018.

The energy will be very intense. The new moon combined with the energy of Aries as well as Mercury goes Direct!

This is one of the most powerful New Moons to manifest love into your life.

The sign Aries influences new beginnings, taking action and pasions.

Tips on how to use the new moon to manifest LOVE

1st tip. Sacred space.

Find a place in your home that you can call your own. This doesn’t have to be any place fancy — just somewhere that you won’t be disturbed. Place any sacred items there.

Some examples: Pictures of angels, candles, incense, sage, mala beads, crystals, essential oils  (I love and highly recomend doTerra oils).

You can get creative or just make it simple. There are no rules here — but you want to love this space!

If that is impossible for you right now, you can make a portable sacred space. Get a bag and put all of your favorite items in it and go to be in nature. I love sitting against a tree to do energy work.

The purpose of this sacred space it to help you declutter your mind and reminds you that every time you are in this space, you are going to connect to a higher power and divine energies.


2nd tip.

Raise your vibration, the best way to turn around negative energy is to find the gratitude in your life.  This can be just simple things that make you smile in your life.

Take a pen a paper and write down all the things in your life that you are grateful for. such as:

  • Your loved ones and friends
  • Your health and being alive
  • Your morning coffee
  • Food
  • The device your reading this on, ETC.
The more your energy is spiralling upward, the more your manifesting power increases.
 
Clear your mind with made up doubting beliefs that hold you back.
Replace those doubts to believing in miracles.
Forgive the past. Let go of any resentments. Even to yourself.
Stop saying I should of_____.
Clear and delete what no longer serves you. We sometimes hold on to toxic relationships (co-dependant), friendships (frenemy) and clients (draining energy).
Smudged to clear the toxic cords of this person/people, I love working with Smokey/Morion quartz and DoTerra’s Frankincense oil.

3rd tip. Be very clear on your intentions

Take time to meditate, get clear on what you want to manifest in your life. Then  write it down.

Make a list and set your intentions for what you would like to grow in your life.

If you are looking to manifest love in your life, first step is to love yourself. Develop a personal relationship with you.

Then make a list of all the qualities that you are looking for in your partner. Be very specific. It’s important to not use anyone’s name. You don’t want to force the will of another to make someone love you.

Because it can backfire and manifest the opposite.

If your looking to reconcile with a past loved one, then it’s important to give up the wanting to control the situation. Everything happens for a reason and there is a lesson in every experience. People enter into our lives to teach us something very valuable.

When you truly let go and find the blessing from that relationship then you’ve passed the test.

There are psychic cords (not the spiritual bond of the connection) that attach to us in a toxic relationship. We need to cut the cords by letting go and moving on. By doing so what is meant to come back into your life will return. Or the right person will enter our lives, the divine partner.


4th tip. Meditate and release the outcome.

Burn a white unscented tea light candle with your intention. It’s very important that when you burn the candle that you revisit and mastered tip# 2.

Trust that it is all by divine timing that this will all manifest for your highest good. Believe that there is a true love and that you deserve love. Take action, go out more often, date and most importantly give a person a chance!

Maybe they’re not your type on the surface but the ugly duckling Could turn into the beautiful swan and be the man/woman of your dreams.

Trust the process and have faith in that your eternal Soulmate is out there.

Check out my Youtube video for more info on using the new moon to manifest.  If you have any questions post them in the comment section below and if you need more information and reading. I’ll be around all day to take your calls.

You have until Tuesday to use the new moon’s manifesting energies.

Related articles:

Manifest Your Heart’s Desires 

How To Attract Your Soulmate

Soulmate Twinflame Reading “What Do You Want To Create”?

Hello Beautiful Souls.

What do you want to create in your life? It’s something to think about and it came up in this week’s Youtube reading.

I just uploaded it for week March 19 to March 26th

It is meant for anyone that is visiting this blog post and viewing the video. Even if you’re viewing after the message is still intended for you because the Universe brought you here.

I’m using the Book Of Shadows Tarot Volume 2.

1st card:

Feelings of disappointment. Something that might be happening in your life that is not what you expected and feels like it is out of your control.

But it is only fear it self that is getting the best of you right now.

Everything happens for a reason, to bring out the best in you.


2nd card The Fool

The Fool tells you to be carefree and take the chance on life. Sometimes you got to take a risk in life in order to move forward.

Follow your intuition and clear reason about which risks are worth taking.

Also its about a major choice for you to make. That could not only effect your life but someone else’s also.

Listen to Dave’s song “Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained” it will inspire you with courage if there’s a chance that you know that you need to act upon.

To listen to it click here 


3rd card Three of Pentacles

This card tells us to get cracking on pursuing our creativity.

Creativity comes in many forms. Just how you fix your bed is creative.

Just start something, here is a short list of some ideas in case you thing that you’re not creative.

  • Re-ranging your space
  • cooking a meal
  • fixing your bed
  • hair and accessories
  • kniting
  • bead work
  • scrapbooking
  • journaling/happy planer (one my faves)
  • tell a story
  • planning your next tatoo
  • gardening
  • Vision board
  • Altar
  • sketching
  • diet and exercise.

Related articles:

Manifest your heart’s desired

How to attract your divine partner

 

 

Manifest Your Heart’s Desires

Hello Lovelies

It’s been a while since my last blog post, I’ve been a busy bee this month with so many projects.

But I recorded and uploaded a Youtube video last week. About how to manifest your desires.

What do you to create?

More money?

Perfect relationship?

New car?

New job or your own business?

Better health?

As you may or many not know, we live in a Universe made out of super intelligent energy.

Our thoughts are energy, everything around you is energy.

Even your body which you assume is solid is made out of energy. We are like floating in space.

You can manifest anything your heart desires. Your thoughts create your reality.

That’s why it’s really important to keep your energy positive. Didn’t say it was easy but it can be if you are in the present moment.

Be mindful on the people you associate with. Even the people we  care about can sometimes be negative and dramatic that it becomes contagious and latches on us.

Not saying you have to end your relationship, instead change the subject to positive when ever they seem negative.

It’s also a good idea to restrict watching the news and violent TV shows/movies,

Another good way is to work on living a healthy lifestyle.

When you negative situations should arise it’s important to be aware not react and let go. Not sweeping it under the carpet but to keep merging ahead and keeping your eyes on the road.

Don’t let the distractions loose your focus on what you want manifest in your life.

In my video I will explain how to tap into the Manifestation muscle and a how you can manifest anything your heat desires.

Check it out:

 

One quick note: The best time to manifest your heart’s desire is during a new moon.

Which by the way, the next one Thursday May 25. It is a powerful new moon. You can set your intentions during three days of the new moon.

If you would like to learn more on attraction your soulmate,

I have a blog post all about that, click here

How To Attract Your Eternal soulmate

How To Attract Your Eternal Soulmate or Divine partner. 

I just wanted to let you know that I uploaded to youtube video.

It’s not a reading video. 

Its a video on using special crystal recipe how to attract your soulmate or divine partner. 

I used it many years ago and it worked!

I’m so excited to share it with you. So go grab a pen, paper and a beverage.

I’m about to give you a mini crystal lesson on how to attract your Soulmate Divine partner.

Here’s another article on how to attract your soulmate to you

Song About Soulmates

Hello Gorgeous Souls

I have had this blog post in a draft for a couple of months now- and today I finally felt it was time to finish it and publish it!

It’s a very interesting story I think you might enjoy 🙂 It’s song about soulmates.

May of last year I graduated Doreen Virtue’s Fairylogy course.

One of the missions was to search for fairies on film at dawn or dusk (it’s easier to see them on digital media – ever wonder what the orbs are in your photos?) and I did!
Fairies are nature spirits that are guardian angels to animals, flowers, plants and the earth.

They are very shy to show themselves, but they will appear if you believe in your heart.

I actually saw and got to record fairies on my film (after countless hours and days of looking :-).
I was so excited and I wanted to show it to my Fairylogy Facebook group peers.

So I uploaded it to Youtube. I thought,
“I need a cool song to go with the video.” But “wait!” I thought, I can’t just use any song,
I need copyright permission.
So I found a song my Dave wrote and recorded (he sang, played all the instruments) for me about 5 years ago.

It still needed to be professionally mastered, which is so expensive, great song but it sat in my iTunes library.
The name of it is “Butterfly.”

It’s all about the beautiful transition that happens when a soul finds their eternal soulmate and true love.
I thought it would be perfect to use it in the background for my video. The name “Butterfly” matches beautifully.

The sound didn’t upload very well.
Partly because it needed the final tweaks of professional mastering and also because when
I captured fairies in the video the music volume distorted for some mysterious unknown reason :-).

But I posted it anyways. Check it out:

Dave was a little uncomfortable with the way the song sounded in the video. He realized the song was a good one and he’d forgotten about it.

He wanted to have it professionally mastered. He knew he would one day.

The Universe has our backs when we get our blocks (fears, doubts, negative stuff from childhood, etc.) out of the way.

One of the things Fairy energy is known for is rewarding you with little gifts when you take care of the earth, like picking up trash off the side walk and roads ETC.

So this was my mission and Dave was helping me along.

In the video I filmed one of our excursions to help clean up the earth (I used to have a wasp phobia.

The only thing I asked of the fairies was that they please keep the wasps away! And they did 🙂

Check out the video:

2 weeks after I posted the video,
Dave got an email stating that he won $2,500 in studio and mastering as a prize for a song contest.

He’d forgotten he was entered!

Perfect Divine Timing to get Butterfly professionally mastered!

This song is made out of love and has a special loving healing energy when you listen to it.

Listen to the finished version of “Butterfly” and view the lyrics:

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I created the artwork for it 🙂 Another interesting miracle happened.

I was drawing a blank on the sketch (how hard could it be to just a draw a butterfly?)

So I thought I’d pay my beautiful ravine forest for inspiration.

It was January -in Canada! – We were amazed to see a bunch of butterflies!

Check it out (I filmed it on my Instagram account):

Heres  the art work I created 🙂

Butterfly Cover

If you would like purchase and download Dave’s song (it’s only $1) click here

Click here to read Dave’s blog on Fairies.

Click here to read more about how the Butterfly song got created.

Tarot Reading For Soulmates

Here is a tarot reading for soulmates or it could resonate on any other topic in your life.

I’m using the Steampunk Tarot. It has such a lovely Victorian era.

1st card: Eight of Cups

The Eight of Cups is telling you that you need to put your burden down.

Maybe you have been feeling weighed down by something or just repeatable negative thought pattern.

It is time to let it go. It is preventing you from moving forward in your life and feeling joy.

It can also suggest that you feel like someone may have abandoned you. That someone forgotten about you or you’re unloved.

The more stress over this. The more power you give these negative thoughts.

Don’t believe those thoughts.

You need to walk away from those terrible thoughts now. They’re dragging your energy down.

I know it’s easier said than done. But by thinking these things you actually affirm to the Universe that you want more of this to happen.

The Law of attraction works by your thoughts alone.

You can attract positive things to you and the negative. This is why it is important to always work on yourself to spiral upwards. Do things that make you feel good about your self.

It’s important to give yourself white space.

Take a time out and take your self out on a date to nature (being out in nature is one of the best healing solutions you can do to raise your vibration and spiral upward).

Try it and trust the process that it is all of divine timing.


2nd card: Judgement

Judgement tells us that something that we thought was stagnant and is going to be awakened and revived.

An energy of renewal will be entering your life.

A major shift is indicated here.

But first you have to shake things up to make this happen. Like letting something go. As indicated in the 1st card of this reading.

Try doing some spring cleaning, like major purge, donate and let go of things that no longer serve you.

This can definitely get things moving in the love department. Visualize your making room for someone or that your getting ready to move in (with that person).


3rd card: Seven of Cups

The Seven of cups is telling you to watch out not to scatter yourself.  You need to ground yourself and not believe all those repetitive thoughts.

Lately so many people been telling me they’re addicted to watch/spy/stalk  their ex one social media profile (you can’t really stalk or spy on someone if its on the internet, it’s meant to be scene by you).

Hoping for a glimpse of that person will mention them or give them a sign of hope.

I totally understand the situation but the only thing thats going to happen is scattered energy and an illusion.  Don’t put your self through that.

It’s not healthy to do this because the energy actually pushes the loved one further. It’s important to get get a hold of yourself and get grounded.

Go outside and touch a tree, put your back against a tree or get a plant with large leaves and touch the leaves. This helps to ground the energy.

Also the 7 of cups tells us to plan ahead. That there are many choices for you but you need to choose one at a time, focus and time management is needed.

Here is  the Youtube tarot reading for soulmates

Multi Oracle Reading

Hello Beautiful Souls

I just filmed and updated a new Youtube multi oracle reading.

1st card is Rhodochrosite

Rhodochrosite is an excellent card for attracting love into your life. We all need love to survive.

But what happens when a soulmate partner just seems so negative and just irritates and trigger angry emotions in you?

Instead of acting out, have compassion. Rhodochrosite is a stone of unconditional love. If you don’t have a piece of this beautiful stone in your healing tool box (that’s what I call it 🙂 no worries, looking at a photo of it will work.

Take a deep breath and stare into the photo and receive the loving healing energy.

Take into consideration that the other person is in pain and could be going through a challenging time. For me, when I tune into the rhodochrosite, the word compassion keeps flowing across my third eye.

Everyone we meet — especially our soulmate family — will always trigger an emotional response. Yes the union is BLISS. But they came into into our lives to heal something within us that needs healing.  They show us how much love we have inside us.


2nd card is Solar Plexus chakra

 

Solar Plexus chakra is about gaining your own power and not giving it away.

Take control over your life. Don’t allow someone or something to have power over you. You are the master of you.

An example is related to the first card above. If you get triggered and then get upset, you are giving your power away.

Solar plexus connects us to our intuition. It is our inner pendulum. Think about it…

Did you ever walk into a room and feel something in the pit of you stomach and find later that there was argument or some kind of negative episode?

Or when you meet someone who gives you a shiver and the butterflies. That is meeting your soulmate.

When you feel stressed the energy is stored your belly. It’s important to not react. Stay calm and in control. Breathe. Allow the energy to be. It will move it’s way through you automatically just like clouds move across the sky. If you resist, the feelings will “stick” and they will be harder to let go of.

Never try to force the outcome of a love situation. The more you try to speed up the union of a soulmate connection you actually push it away from you.

When manifesting, always do your best feel a sense of ALLOWING it to unfold. This is faith. And the more you practice, the more you build your faith.

Check out the Youtube reading

Soulmate Twinflame Energy

Since it’s Valentine’s Day, I did a reading on soulmate and twin flame energy.

Valentine’s Day is known as the love day. Soulmate twin flame energy is all around us this time of year.

It’s one of my favorite times of the year.

It’s a time that we can tell or express our love to someone especially to ourselves.

Here are the card that I picked for the reading.

Scroll down to the Youtube reading video to see view the meanings.

1st card is

Awaiting Results

twin flame energy reading
Awaiting Results

 

2nd card is Taking the lead

twin flame energy reading
Take the lead

3rd card is Coming together

twin flame energy reading
Coming together

4th card is Forgiveness

twin flame energy reading
Forgiveness

 

I know it can be tough for those of you at this time of year who are in a twin flame relationship. And I feel for you!

Tip: Read this post, but also watch the video. It doesn’t matter in which order. This will help with taking in all the information from the reading.

You may really miss your twin flame. Or be hoping for them to call. I get it. I’ve been there! The way the Universe works, though, is beyond our human minds ability to understand.

The Universe is Perfect Love. It wants you to find love. It wants you to thrive and be happy. The Universe does have your back. But when you “chase” your twin flame, you are actually affirming to the Universe that is what you want! So they become the “runner.”

This is what Jesus meant when he said “it is done to you as you believe.”

So if you want to be with the Love of your Life, do your best to let go of wanting to control the outcome. Sometimes the Universe knows a better way to bring you together.

Do your best to surrender and know that you are worthy of love. Let go out of love and trust. Not out of fear or because you think you should.

What we think all day long is what we have reflected back to us in our lives. Just know that your perfect Love is here in this world looking for you. And if it’s your twin flame you want, affirm that you want them. You can’t lie, after all.

They are the ones that your heart wants to be with. BUT after you pray and affirm that you want to be with them, add the following: “If it is in the Highest Good of all concerned.”

And keep working with the energy until you feel a shift. More calm. More open. More trusting that your needs will be met.

It’s very important when working with the Law of Attraction and using prayer to add that statement at the end. “If it is in the Highest Good of all concerned.”

After that, just let go and trust. Go about your day. Send kindness and love to people around you. Smile more if you can. Treat yourself to something. And let go of expectations. Just for now.

Know that your perfect Love is here now.

It’s just a matter of time in before it’s manifest in the physical world. Like any plant, you must add water and sunshine. That means to keep your prayers going and to replace any doubts or negative thoughts with positive affirmations such as “I am loveable” or “my Good comes to me now.”

You can do it! And if you need help, I’m here.

How to attract your soulmate

 

 

Attract Your Soulmate On Valentine’s Day

Attract your soulmate on Valentine’s Day!

It’s just around the corner and this year it’s also a full moon. A day dedicated to soulmates and romance. According to Farmer’s Almanac, today’s full moon is called a Snow Moon.

What Does This Mean For You?

It’s an excellent opportunity to plant seeds of intention. Especially regarding Love. Valentine’s Day has been around for a while. Long enough to create an energy pattern in the collective mind of humans.

The full moon acts as an amplifier to the already strong Love energy. Ok. So now we’re going to talk about what you can do! But first…

 

What You DON’T Want To Do…

If you’re in a twin flame relationship or just single and wanting to be with someone special, the things you may want to do are exactly what you shouldn’t do. Not if you’re serious about results.

You may want to wallow in self pity and and loneliness. Understandablely so! We all need love. We are beings of Love!

But this is actually affirming to the Universal Law of Attraction that you are lonely. So what will you get? More loneliness!

These are only thoughts in your head. Habits. Habits CAN be changed. It takes a bit of work and grit, but it is totally possible.

Have you ever quit smoking or known someone who did? It may have seemed difficult but once they were determined to see themselves as a non smoker, they quit.

Same idea here. You can begin to create new ideas about yourself. Know that you are loveable. Know that you are beautiful. Know that you are deserving.

 

What You Need To Do

How did you feel inside when you thought about yourself as being beautiful and deserving? Did you accept it — or was there another voice inside saying “no you’re not!” ?

If that voice was there, relax. You didn’t do it “wrong.” It’s just showing you what’s been put in there in the past. It could’ve been in childhood or as a youth or even various past lives.

Don’t worry about when it was put there. Just realize that you put it there for a reason at the time, but it no longer serves you now.

Imaging you’re a cat watching a mouse hole. Watch your thoughts the same way. Alert but relaxed. Don’t be afraid if negative thoughts of doubt, fear etc. come. They’re only thoughts.

Relax. Breathe. Realize they’re only thoughts. As you watch them without flinching or resisting them, you’ll eventually be able to let them go.

Set yourself a challenge to do this as best you can. This is your number one practice. It helps greatly if you can feel your connection with a Higher Power of your own understanding.

Next we’re going to talk about some simple things you can do on Valentine’s Day…

 

Attract Your Soulmate On Valentine’s Day

Yes. You read that correctly. Be your own Valentine! There’s a huge difference between feeling lonely and being in solitude.

If you’re by yourself on Valentine’s Day you might as well make it a good day. Pamper yourself. Love yourself.

Look at all you’ve been through. You’re stronger and wiser than you give yourself credit for.

Take yourself out to get your nails or hair done. If you’re a guy, get a shave or pedicure. Make a date and take yourself to dinner. Add a movie in there if you’re so inclined.

Buy yourself flowers and write yourself a nice card.

You may think this is corny. If so, this is really important for you to actually do. Part of you may prefer to wallow in wondering what your twin flame is doing today or silently feeling like a victim. Like it’s not fair. I understand.

But we want you to end this pattern, remember? The pattern is not you. They are old thought patterns.

So please, for you own sake, do this stuff. It really works. You’re starting to affirm to yourself and the Universe that you are loveable. That you are happy. That you are worthwhile.

And people who have these feelings on the inside are very magnetic indeed!

Yes, it’s work. And perhaps it is a little corny. But it does work. How do I know? Because like you, I had a period in my life where I was alone.

And I had some of these thought patterns. Like I was special somehow and couldn’t find normal love like other people.

But I decided to roll up my sleeves and work on it. I’ll be honest. It took some time. Longer than I wanted. But it was well worth it. And I didn’t give up!

A few years later, I met my true and eternal soulmate, Mary! I actually wrote a song about how we found each other in this lifetime. It’s called “Hey Mary Hey.” You can listen to it below.

And if you feel overwhelmed with this, we are here for you to talk to. You can book readings over the phone or via email.

Blessings and Light.

Related Reading:

How To Attract Your Soulmate

How Does The Law Of Attraction Really Work?

Twin Flames, Soulmates And Love

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“Hey Mary Hey” music and lyrics

©2015 by Davidson Yeager

Once upon a time in my biography

Soulmates were like the lottery

Seemed like love had a secret key

Winning the jackpot was not for me

I wasn’t bitter and I still had hope

I saw some signs upon that foggy road

Somethin’ round the bend I couldn’t quite perceive

And Your face was veiled in my dreams

You smoke signalled me

Only my 3rd eye could see

You were waiting for me to come

and knock upon your door

You stood there shining like the morning sun

Hey Mary Hey

I could never keep you waiting long

Hey Mary Hey

I could never do you any wrong

All those seasons on my own

I was only halfway grown

This love has made me realize

Soulmates travel through many lives

You flew in on your wings of gold

You prove positivity can never grow old yeah!

You are always shining like the morning sun!

Hey Mary Hey

I could never keep you waiting long

Hey Mary Hey

I could never do you any wrong

You don’t even have to try

Let me rock you with a lullaby

Songs that only we can hear

Conquer all our earthly fears

Hey Mary Hey

I could never keep you waiting long

Hey Mary Hey

I could never do you any wrong

Hey Mary Hey

I could never keep you waiting long

Hey Mary Hey => You don’t even have to try ‘cos I love you.

Thanks for reading this far 🙂 If you’re interested, you can purchase and download this song.