What can you expect from a psychic reading? What are the benefits?
When you first make the decision to research and call a psychic it’s probably because you’re feeling stressed out or unhappy about someone or something in your life circumstances.
You may even have your own psychic messages — but you want some confirmation.
Your main goal when you call is to end your confusion and get peace of mind.
This is important to remember. Why?
Most of us go in and out of various “trance states” all day long. We think we’re “present” but we’re really acting on auto pilot.
Some of the auto pilot patterns that take over were helpful in childhood (where they were formed — even in past lives) as a defense mechanism to a sometimes hostile environment.
But when they aren’t faced and dealt with as an adult, they become hardened. This can block the flow of love and creativity.
These are the same patterns that get many of us in trouble.
If This Autopilot Function Is So Harmful, Why Do We Have It?
It’s main purpose is for developing skills such as speaking, walking and even playing a musical instrument for example.
You wouldn’t want to have to think about every detail of these actions.
However, when it starts coming in to our emotional body, that’s where things can get tricky.
What Does This Have To Do With Getting A Psychic Reading?
Because even though we may start with the intention of finding out truth in order to heal, we sometimes automatically go into denial.
We only want to hear what we want to hear.
This isn’t always the case, but it’s something to be aware of.
What A Good Psychic Can And Cannot Do
Life is a paradox. In other words, our minds can never figure it out. As soon as we try to, that’s not it.
The answers are in our hearts which beats it’s pulse in the present moment.
When you’re confused about what direction to take in life, it’s like you’re walking on a super foggy road where you can’t see anything.
You’re turning in circles and bumping into things. It hurts!
A good psychic is like a flashlight. The flashlight only illuminates certain things. It can help you start moving forward.
Nothing Is Carved In Stone
In any given moment, infinite possibilities exist. You are co creating your life by the choices you make or do not make.
The Law of Attraction is definitely true — but it doesn’t mean we (meaning our limited ego selves that we think we are) can have whatever we want. It might not be in our highest good, for one thing.
By the same token, we can have, be or do whatever it is we want. But only if we’re relatively free of our conditioned egos and reactive patterns.
This is not easy! This is healing. It can take a few years to start to really heal and get back to a more authentic version of your self.
sidenote: In the east, this is known as “dharma.”
Life is challenging on purpose. That’s why we’re here. To develop as souls. To gain access to more strength, wisdom and unconditional love. To liberate ourselves.
Does this mean destiny doesn’t exist? Of course not! Some things in life are predestined according to the stars.
These are issues that we still need to work through — or gifts that have been earned through previous lessons in previous lifetimes.
Most of us have earned some merit.
On top of that, we have freewill — BUT only as much freewill as we are free of our crystallized patterns that make our egos.
So this brings us back to what we can expect from a psychic reading.
Psychic Readings and Expectations
Try to remain open minded to what the psychic is saying. Sometimes your Guides and Angels (your helpers in the spirit world which exists on higher frequencies of vibration) will want to get information to you. This will be communicated to the psychic.
Sometimes something you want to know is something your Guides and Angels do not want for you to know. Why?
Because you need to see it for yourself or learn something. Or you may need to let go of something before something else can shift.
Sometimes We Just Need To Be Patient…
Sometimes there are many other factors at play. Like let’s say you’re soulmate is being drawn into your experience.
It may require many things to happen.
They may need to break up with their current girlfriend, switch jobs and move to a different city in order to bump into you at a coffee shop that you’re at because of a sequence of events that needed to happen in your life.
As far as this example goes, if the energy has already been set into motion, the psychic will probably be able to pick up on it.
What To Expect From A Psychic Reading — And You Are Psychic!
Wait. What? Then why am I calling a psychic? You’re calling a psychic because they can help you see things and clarify things that you already know in your heart.
When you hear the truth you know it.
You have to be honest with yourself.
It’s easy to be in an aggressive mode where you simply want what you want. We’ve all been there. It’s almost like a holdover from when we were toddlers having a tantrum. Except now we’re adults doing the same thing.
So trust your vibes. Listen to the psychic with an open heart and mind, but listen to your own intuition at the same time. Sometimes this can be difficult or impossible to access — especially if you’re energetically blocked and still in a “trance state.”
Not all psychics are good. It takes a lot of skill to be a professional psychic.
We have to not only tune in quickly to the energy, but find the right words and tone to communicate what is in your highest good.
Sometimes we can sense that the client is in denial and doesn’t want to hear the truth. That gets tricky — because we don’t want to give false hope. But, we know the client’s not ready to hear the truth.
So we need to find ways to gently guide, lead and coach/heal the client to see the truth for themselves.
This is the main difference between a good psychic and a mediocre psychic.
It’s not in the ‘flash and pizzazz” of how they deliver their message — it’s that they are also a gifted healer who is spiritually connected and has worked on dissolving their own ego patterns to a certain point.
They know and can empathize with what you are going through. And they have to decide how to guide you toward the truth.
At the end of the day, we can show you what is possible right now. Perhaps you’re meant to leave a situation and move on. Perhaps nothing is going to happen for a while.
I know that as a professional psychic, I want you to win. I want you to be happy. I want you to be, do or have anything you want.
I do not wish to give you “bad” news. I love when things are working out how you want them to!
But the truth sets you free. It’s better to know and finally accept that something is over that to cling to a false hope.